Question
What would you do if one of your friends is acting all weird, and when ya ask him/her what wrong, he/she tells you that he/she heard from another friend that you are a bad bad person and they make a lot of sense and I ain't talking to you anymore?!
PS: What would bother you the most? The fact that they got upset with you at all? The fact that they believed someone else while they pretended to be all sweet to you? Or maybe, the fact that they decided to hate you even without wondering if what they heard was true or not?
12 comments:
been there done that. the whole she said he said crap is just so damn childish. what i do is pull the plug and not give a rats ass about everyone involved. intay mintay ib7aja lhom so screw it :) mintay majboora inah you put up weya sowalif yahalo
A1: i don't give a fuck.
Q: What would bother you the most?
A2: ENVY!
i second extinct dodo and zombie...yeahh dont give a fuck!
I would be mad of this persons for all the reasons you told about. Unplug. You don't need such a friend.
& dear BLaSha, you got married or what? :P
they shoud come and ask you...and know u....but you it happened to me..ow i really am better without them now...
i wouldnt be bothered, ide laugh
cz ele said that mokha gad elfesteq
i mite be upset that i didnt know the person was nuts
but to hell with him/her
If she/he is willing to talk about it, then do so first. But if she/he made his/her own mind already, forget about that person, not worth it at all! Ask him/her about what they heard, if it's true (which I doubt since you seem like a nice person) then apologize and try to make up for that, but if you think what she/he heard is crap and none-sense, then, MAKE HER/HIM FEEL REALLY BAD ABOUT THE WHOLE THING! Say something like: "I can't believe that you would choose to believe someone else over me, I thought we were friends." maintain an upset face or an upset attitude or both but do it naturally and don't fake it. Walk away, and don't look back. If she/he is really a friend, she/he will feel bad about the whole thing, and she/he is never gonna doubt you next time, in fact, she/he is gonna be one of your best defenders against those back-biting bastards. That's almost guaranteed. But if she/he still sticks to what she/he heard, move along, you're better than that.
Remember, don't be like him/her and go straight into conclusions, be both emotional and rational at the same time.
Well, what can I say, ENVY is a killer :P
if he/she is a true friend they'd ask you about the things they heard... otherwise, thay arent true friends and you dont need them
Jealousy can lead to such situations. So far I haven't been in a similar situation but I know if I ever did I would probably ignore what they think.
ignore min ommah :P
I didn't lose anything anyways, they lost me ;)
All of the above. But I wouldnt care at the end of the day.
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